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Posted By steven n
I have an interview tomorrow for a role as a safety advisor for a consultancy.
The problem is I get very nervous and stuttery (is that a word?) even though I am qualified and experienced.
Any tips or advice would be appreciated!
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Posted By CFT
Yes Steven
Mt Father, bless him, (no longer here to guide me) used to stutter really badly when undergoing the 'interview/assessment' process. He managed to get through using a well know technique of pausation.
Instead of going from word to word without a bbbbbbbbreak or saying errrr....ummmmmm and so on; pause in between sentences.....pause......."I have also...........been extremely successful........with my auditing techniques........."
It does help,.......it is also very beneficial to anyone who tends to errr and ummm a lot, it has many advantages.........it allows you time to quickly think....how best to get the information....across.
Try it; it really worked for Father, and he was a dreadful stutterer.
Good luck with the interview, they will probably be just as nervous.
Charley
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Posted By Tony abc jprhdnMurphy
As I am firmly of the oppinion that good communication skills are an integral part of the Safety advisor Role you do indeed have a major problem. Sadly confidence cannot be bought from the local shop and not many people know how to overcome this.
I ran a training course recently where we concentrated on lack of confidence , nerves at interview etc and the common denominator was lack of practice. My advice would be to practice your interview techniques with a colleague, although as the interview is tomorrow you arent giving yourself the best opportunity.
Good Luck
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Posted By steven n
In my day to day working life I am fine, I don't lack confidence (quite the opposite) It is only when I am in an interview situation I tend to work myself up and start to flap.
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Posted By VJM
Hi Steven,
I'm with CFT. I'm not a stutterer when nervous, but I do tend to do the um's a lot. When someone pointed out to me the pausing technique, it really helped. Give it a shot and Good Luck!!!
VJM
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Posted By Judith W
Steven
I have interviewed many people some nervous, some confident. It makes no difference, your ability to do the job is what is under scrutiny. Any decent potential employer knows full well how stressful interviews are and will be patient.
Please do not worry.
Judith
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Posted By Darren (Daz) Fraser
First of all, all the very best of luck for your interview.
You know your subject, they feel you may be the right person for the role, hence the interview.
I am sure you have been advised in the past with regard to calming techniques to help you with your stutter, if not
1. Relax as much as is possible, arrive early at the location, and sit in the car until 5 minutes before your appointment - therefore not rushing to be there and putting yourself under pressure.
2. If offered accept or ask for a glass of water, this will allow you time to think and keep your throat lubricated.
3. If unsure of anything or do not understand ask for clarification, again this allows you time to think but also demonstrates that you will ask for clarification before answering.
If you do stutter during the interview, just stop and take a minute or two to compose yourself, I find the worst thing for me is if I try to continue, that minute or two allows me to relax, think and then continue.
If you can keep your nerves under control, then you stand a good chance of not being affected, I have found that if I become absorbed in the process, my stutter disappears altogether.
Once again all the very best for tomorrow and keep us informed of how you get on.
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Posted By Frankie
Hi Steven,
I'm the same. I stammer or word-whisker dreadfully in stressful interview situations.
I find that practicing the answer to the most common interview questions helps me. There are stock questions you get asked in any interview, and those that tend to arise out of your personal experience. (I always get asked why I speak Greek, for instance)
Imagine you're the interviewer, think of some of the harder questions he could ask which would throw you, and then practice the answer, in the car, in the bath, in the mirror...
But the pausing definately works too. Works for me!
Best of luck!
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Posted By Ian G Hutchings
Hi Steven
Sometimes I find that deep breathing exercises help me. Take a deep breath and then hold it and count to five. Do this a few times and I find it helps bring the pulse down a bit.
The other approach I use is to try and convince myself that I enjoy the sensation of being nervous. Some people pay a fortune for uppers; why bother when you can enjoy the nerves that go with interviews and presentations!
Obviously avoid coffee and caffeine in general, especially 'energy drinks' - unless you want the resting heart rate of a serial killer!
Best of luck
Ian
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Posted By songwriter
suck some mints, preferably Fisherman's Friends, they are small, hot and will take your mind of the stuttering. Good luck.
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Posted By steven n
Thanks for the responses guys I will let you know how I got on. One thing I wont do is drink a gallon of red bull and run in screaming!
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Posted By peter gotch
Hi Steven
To add to Ian's response, while you are waiting in reception do the "power minute".
Breathe in as deep as you can, hold it and then exhale hard. Repeat X times for a minute.
Increases the amount of oxygen in your system whilst reducing the amount of carbon dioxide.
Part of my presentation skills training, which I put into practice whenever I am about to go into stressful scenario such as recently going into the box as expert witness to face an extremely vexatious litigant.
Good luck with the interview.
Regards, Peter
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Posted By Andy Petrie
i have a nervous disorder which means my hands shake, add the stress of an interview and this can be quite bad (coffee everywhere).
the thing is practice, apply for loads of jobs, especially ones you don't want. You get really good practice when you're at an interview and you are not bothered about the job as this takes loads of stress off you and will stand you in good stead when you need it.
not much use for tomorrow but good luck anyway
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Posted By Mitch
As Peter said breath, in through the nose and out through the mouth is how my ferapist tort me. I always imagine the questioner on the loo, this was good advice given to me years ago!
Mitch
PS best of luck.
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Posted By steven n
Just a quick update, I followed all your good advice and all went very well so fingers crossed...
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