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KKemp  
#1 Posted : 15 September 2011 11:33:00(UTC)
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KKemp

Hello,

Would like to get some opinions from others on this subject. I am a new parent to schools, my daughter just started this term Nursery School, she is 3 years old. I have also recently had a baby who is 9 weeks old. Anyway, they said to me due to Health and Safety no prams are allowed in the classroom but they expect me to take my daughter into the classroom.

They actually said for me to leave my baby in the pram outside saying "dont worry there are other mums and dads there" obviously i did not leave my baby outside.

You may think, why dont i just pick my baby up and bring the baby in the classroom but can you imagin carrying your baby in one hand, whilst trying to sort out your daughters coat, bag and any drawing that she has done that day, what about the risk in this, i find it a struggle, at least when they are in the pram you have your hands free and they are protected by the pram.

I have seen on several occassions parents leaving their babies un-attended so that they can take their child into school, what about the safety of their babies, surly anyone can come along and snatch them.

I am currnelty in a battle with the school as they dont see my point of view, they have completed spoiled the moment of me taking my child to school.

I have suggested to them only 1 or 2 prams at a time but they weren't having this. I have also suggested that i say goodbye to my child by the door of the classroom, but they are un-happy with this solution too.

Your feedback and opinions would be appreciated.

Katie
HSSnail  
#2 Posted : 15 September 2011 11:40:36(UTC)
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HSSnail

KKemp

Its a few years since I took my son to nursery but I have sympathy with both the school and yourself. School cloak rooms are usually very crowded places not designed for prams and pushchairs so I can see why the school does not want them taking into the cloak room. If other parents are bringing prams why not befriend each other so that one of you can stay with the prams whilst the other takes the children into the cloak room?
Ken Slack  
#3 Posted : 15 September 2011 11:45:57(UTC)
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Ken Slack

As a parent of 2 differently aged children I know how you feel. It all boils down to the schools risk assessment, if a control on the risk assessment says prams aren't allowed then they have to follow that.

I doubt very much that they can risk assess how you deliver your child to school.
Alan Haynes  
#4 Posted : 15 September 2011 11:51:19(UTC)
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Alan Haynes

out of interest - is it just prams that are 'banned', or do they also 'ban' pushchairs, which tend to be a bit smaller?
KKemp  
#5 Posted : 15 September 2011 12:10:25(UTC)
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KKemp

They ban pushchairs as well, i just think that the situation could be managed better - thanks for your feedback.
Ron Hunter  
#6 Posted : 15 September 2011 12:26:52(UTC)
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Ron Hunter

Perhaps the issue that could be addressed is this expectation that parents etc. are expected to take their child into the classroom?
bob youel  
#7 Posted : 16 September 2011 07:45:08(UTC)
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bob youel

Friend: There are no H&Safety laws that forbid prams etc being in a class room

What the school should have done is evaluate the overall situation and then make a decision which includes communicating that decision to parents especially new parents but schools are not as proactive as they could be in this area [However this is a general statement which may not apply here] and unfortunately the design of schools, even brand new schools, does not allow for drop off nor pick up of children either in the corridors nor anywhere else

The advice already given re befriending is probably the only way forward and the biggest problem we have is the lack of information given out to new parents about taking their child to school for the first time. Again I doubt that this system will change!

Turn this problem around and you may make new friends that will be friends for life
Best of luck
ExDeeps  
#8 Posted : 16 September 2011 08:57:09(UTC)
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ExDeeps

Katie,
Writing as a School Governor, you may wish to consider making a formal complaint - if you do please make sure that you ask for a copy of the school complaints policy/procedure and then follow it. Also, how's about keeping an eye out for any upcoming vacancies in the Governing Body - Elected parent governors can have a massive influence on how the school is run and you will have access to the decision making process that caused this issue (I do realise some governing bodies are better than others but give it a try),
Jim
walker  
#9 Posted : 16 September 2011 09:16:18(UTC)
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walker

Katie as an IOSH member why don't you offer your services?
Maybe via the route Exdeeps suggests.

I have to say I have sympathy with what the school is saying.
Mind you if I had my way there would be a gaols in every playground for the mummys who think its OK to park on the zig zags on the road outside - "just for a few minutes".
John J  
#10 Posted : 16 September 2011 09:38:46(UTC)
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John J

Katie,

I look at this from both sides as my wife is an ex teacher and current pre-school assistant and we have a son who has just started school.

I do think your making a mountain out of a molehill in the amount of work you will be expected to carry. At three your daughter should be able to put her own coat on and carry her drawings/bag the short distance to the pram.

Classrooms are crowded areas with lots of young children moving about. Add prams/pushchairs to this equation and its only going to make it worse.

Don't let this spoil your enjoyement of school life particularly as it won't be long until your youngest is tearing about excited at taking big sister to school.
Zimmy  
#11 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:07:07(UTC)
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Zimmy

For me...
I would never, ever let any infant of mine in the care of strangers, mums, dads or not. Sounds like madness to me. Whoever said that to you needs... Well, if I said what I think the post would only get taken down!

Better to trip over a pram than mourn the loss of a child. H&S?

Daily mail headline:

Mum leaves baby with pedophile as school bans prams... Good move!
HSSnail  
#12 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:43:54(UTC)
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HSSnail

Needs what zimmy?

As a parent and an x school governor I take exception to your post

I was not talking about some total stranger off the street I was talking about getting to know the parents of a child's classmates and helping each other out.

No doubt you would subscribe to the ban of a parent taking a group of children to a football match heaven help us all.
Zimmy  
#13 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:47:47(UTC)
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Zimmy

Who knows who at any school...just people in passing. I take exeption to anyone who says to place a child with people they know 'in passing'
John J  
#14 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:48:15(UTC)
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John J

We have gone from the sublime to the ridiculous. If you consider every other adult you know as a deviant you will end up wrapping your kids in cotton wool.

If we are making ridiculous headlines up how about 'Child trips over pushchair and fractures skull - school fails to act on hazard'.

I know which of the two scenarios is more realistic and even thats remote.

And we wonder why schools make daft decisions on health and safety...they are damned if they do and damned if they don't.
Fun Police  
#15 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:52:56(UTC)
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Fun Police

I would suggest you ask for information on how the pram is a health and safety issue, aslo ask if its feasable to have a dropping of area in the cooridor or a classtroom for the pram owners as some schools do but school size is obviously critical in this. The befriending another pram owner is common sense as would be to purchase a baby carrier.
HSSnail  
#16 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:52:58(UTC)
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HSSnail

Zimmy please read my response.

Not just someone in passing but someone you have got to know - for goodness sake you will be wanting every parent to by CRB checked before they enter a school playground with there own children next because other children are present.

What will you do when your child is old enough to want to visit a friend house? How do you know that parent in your words is not some pedophile.

Sensible risk assessment some degree of co -operation between parents and school is all I am suggesting.
kdrum  
#17 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:54:09(UTC)
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kdrum

Personally I thought Brians suggestion was a good compromise and in fact have seen that happen at my childrens school and at the nursery my ex ran.
Zimmy  
#18 Posted : 16 September 2011 15:54:56(UTC)
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Zimmy

Brian, It's just my point of view. You find it as hard to understand as I do yours.

My friend did just what you suggested and the child paid the price. It's not a nice world. So, I do take exception at your suggestion but will back you up in your right to put it forward.
Zimmy  
#19 Posted : 16 September 2011 16:04:33(UTC)
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Zimmy

and the question in the first post ended with...

'Your feedback and opinions would be appreciated'

HSSnail  
#20 Posted : 16 September 2011 16:06:59(UTC)
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Zimmy

As a parent your friend has my great sympathy but as others have said this is a very very rare occurrence and it should not cloud our judgement about every parent in the country. Most of us are good people. As you say we must agree to disagree on this one - but let us do it in a polite manor and not claim that we want to use language that would get this post pulled.
Zimmy  
#21 Posted : 16 September 2011 16:11:00(UTC)
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Zimmy

Brian
Very sorry for kicking out like that but it was a little too close to home. Upon reflection, I did over react somewhat.

I in no way intended it to get personal.
User is suspended until 03/02/2041 16:40:57(UTC) Ian.Blenkharn  
#22 Posted : 16 September 2011 17:13:50(UTC)
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Ian.Blenkharn

The curmudgeon within me can't help thinking that contraception would be an effective control measure.

However, and setting aside that rather extreme approach, I concur with those who consider that a little thought and some effort on the part of the parents wouldn't go amiss.

As a London resident who prefers bus and tube for city travel, I have been happy to join with the groundswell of opinion against the trend toward ever larger pushchairs and the like, and the selfish attitude of the parents who seem to think that they have some divine right to push their way through and to block entrances and thoroughfares, causing frustration and inconvenience, and in some instances causing a not inconsiderable hazard, with apparently not a second thought.

Still, I suppose its all good training for the school run.
jarsmith83  
#23 Posted : 16 September 2011 18:58:08(UTC)
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jarsmith83

Hi Guys,

Might I just surmising, information is requested from the school? This would give you a greater insight into the reasoning behind this decision. My partner is a school teacher, and some of the things I hear do make me chuckle. The "Safety Adviser" for the school is an ad-hoc person, who also deals with HR, and has little or no knowledge of Health and Safety.

If a suitable and sufficient risk assessment has been completed, it would in fact, probably pointed to both the Regulatory Reform (Fire Safety) Order Article 14 (Safe means of escape), and the Workplace (Health, Safety and Welfare) Regulations, Regulation 10, Regulation 12, in particular.

Unfortunately, I think you school may have a valid point. On the other hand though, I would question the management of Health and Safety? Why, if this is common knowledge of leaving children outside, and holding books etc, have some sort of arrangements been made to combat this problem? This is the question I would be asking.

Could they not provide a canopy area, perhaps something gated, in which it could be organised that a rota is put in place between the mums?

I do understand your frustration. It`s like what I say to the guy`s at work "I may stop you from working unsafely, but this is only half of my job. If I stop you from working, there is a reason, but I will always have a solution, otherwise I will only be completing half of my job role."

This is why Health and Safety gets a bad name, because you have people uneducated in Health and Safety leading others. "The blind leading the blind" comes to mind.
jarsmith83  
#24 Posted : 16 September 2011 19:00:45(UTC)
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jarsmith83

"Might I just surmising"

Might I suggest, that instead of just surmising...........

Must review before posting lol!!
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