Morning Chris
Looking forward to the story of the poor little sparrow.
However, what you wrote about "them and us" prompted me to think about my first months after I took up a job on leaving the HSE.
In head office, we had a graphics team of one. Joe.
Joe would do all the display boards for marketing presentations and such like.
One of his jobs was also to do the signs to go on the doors of those who got their own offices.
I got an office three floors down from the centre of the universe (and reception) and across the corridor from Joe's domain. Within 48 hours of my starting there was a sign on my door "Mr P Gotch", nothing else.
So, I walked into Joe's huge space and asked him if he would change my sign.
"What do you want and why?"
"I would like my first name, and no Mr."
"What's the problem? Your sign is done in exactly the same style as everyone else's."
"My job description requires that I communicate with people at all levels of the organisation and if someone thinks they should address me as Mr Gotch, then it creates an artifical barrier to open communication. In contrast if I invite them to call me Peter, they are much more likely to be open about their concerns."
So, Joe made me a new sign. Lots of people called Mr This, That or the Other noticed the sign and asked me about it. They all got exactly the same explanation as Joe did.
Before long lots of signs on doors dropped the Mr (and the very rare Mrs or Miss, even rarer Ms) and spelt out peoples' first names.
Started on our floor, then filtered upwards.