I think I will join Pseudonym.

pseudonym - you'll be back I'm sure, many of us have gone through your dispair - but can you change your name to Alias or something, it's not so difficult to spell!!!! ;-) irwin - considering you have recently been critical of pseudonym's use of pseudonym perhaps you are one of the people that he / she is running from!

first time for a while for me to post anything, now stop cheering you lot. Had some other things to do over the last few weeks like winding up fellow rugby supporters in the local paper, but that's another story. Everyone goes through a patch where they go off and do other things but they do come back to see what's going on. I have always found some very good points on this forum as it is generally from people with both knowledge and experience so a bit of understanding won't go amiss, everyone has an opinion usually different from yours.