A good provocative thread. My answer to Carol’s question is ‘yes, it depends - on the circumstances, time, place and alcohol dosage, etc.
Also, for some jobs, even having a small amount of alcohol which others can smell on one’s breath is not appropriate. Therefore, for example, when I had pub lunches while out inspecting during my HSE days I always stuck to soft drinks or tea because I didn’t want my afternoon “customers” to even think I’d had any lunchtime alcohol. By contrast, I had no qualms about a pint or two of beer with fellow inspectors when we went out (on foot!) for lunch from the office usually on a Friday when we didn’t usually go out on afternoon inspection visits. (This was when I was in a team which covered a large geographical area and such lunches were sometimes the first and best opportunity for us all to catch up with each other about where we’d been and what we’d done during the week.) Our individual alcohol dosage tended to relate to how long we were likely to be in the office afterwards and also if we’d subsequently be driving ourselves home. To use some of Clairel’s words from #5, I reckon we thought and acted in a way which didn’t put either ourselves or others at risk.
One situation which potentially poses a problem in some organisations is the farewell ‘do’, usually held late afternoon, for someone who is retiring or moving to pastures new. In my experience the organisers of such events tend to buy and provide ample amounts of free wine and beer but insufficient amounts of soft drinks. Therefore, when invited to such events, I’ve tried to ask if plenty of non-alcoholic drinks will be provided for the benefit of those who will be driving home shortly afterwards. The other possible option of course for those who wish to drink booze at such events is to pre-arrange to travel home afterwards by public transport or have a lift, etc.
Over the years I’ve thrice arranged evening visits by groups from work to a local brewery. Therefore, though I might be inept at some things, I can rightly claim an ability to organise a proverbial booze up in a brewery! The visits always consisted of an hour’s guided tour following the brewing process followed by an hour or more of relatively unrestricted sampling of products in the brewery’s training & hospitality room. This latter element probably explained why there was never any problem in finding people to join the visits, even after the brewery introduced a charge for them. Bearing in mind the effect of the product dosages involved, I would always pre-advise those coming to ensure they didn’t drive afterwards. In doing so, to avoid talking down to anyone, I would couch the advice along the following lines: “As you’re all sensible adults, there’s clearly no need to tell you to arrange to go home afterwards by bus, train, foot, taxi or any other method as long as you’re NOT driving!”
Cheers!
Graham